Category Archives: Inspiration

Be Inspired!

Be Inspired!

Bismillaah.

I have been very busy lately, and so, not really able to write for the blog as I’d like to.  Regardless of the fact that I have, like,  a DOZEN or so topics I really want to write about.   But anyway…I’ll get to it sooner or later, inshaa Allaah!

In the meantime, I’d like you to check out this beautiful, inspiring website I came upon a little while ago.  It’s called ‘I Got It Covered‘, and it’s all about hijab.  It is sooooo cool mashaa Allaah!  I fell in love with it from first reading.  May Allaah bless the sisters who run it, ameen.

The month of may has been “Reader Take-over Month”, where readers send in their hijab stories.  Mashaa Allaah, ALL of the stories are just so inspiring and touching.  Many of them remind me of my own hijab journey (will write about it another time inshaa Allaah). Take a look if you have time…BE INSPIRED!

Some Eid Reflections

Some Eid Reflections

Bismillaah.

I know, I know…late!  But hey, better later than never, right? :)

Well, the kids have returned to school after a long break that was extended due to the fact that their school closed a week earlier than the scheduled Eid break, because of several confirmed swine flu cases.  So yeah, the break was longer than expected, but alhamdu lillaah the Eid holiday made it very enjoyable, but by the end of it everyone was ready for it to be over (cabin fever).

So the house is quiet now and I have some time to relax and just sort of lollygag as much as I want…oh yeah, and blog too :) .

I was just sitting here reflecting on the day of Eid.  As many of you are aware (maybe not some of the non-muslim readers), Eid al Adha (festival of the sacrifice) commemorates the story of Prophet Ibrahim and how Allaah ordered him to sacrifice his son Ismail.  Ibrahim, in his commitment as a believer and prophet to fulfill Allaah’s commands, took to following through with it, but not before discussing it with his son Ismail.  Ismail’s reply to his father, was for him to do as he has been ordered, and that he himself would be patient and trust in Allaah and would willingly follow through with the command of his Lord.   Because of their willingness to fulfill the command of their Lord, Allaah sent a ram to be sacrificed, instead of Ismail.  For muslims, the Eid represents a sort of recommitment and rededication to obedience to Allaah, by fulfilling His commands and abstaining from His prohibitions.  When we remember Ibrahim’s -the Father of monotheism – unwaivering commitment to Allaah and to His obedience, it should inspire us to live our lives the same way.

So anyway, back to the day of Eid.  We prayed at Masjid Bilal, our usual spot for Eid prayers, only this time we prayed indoors.  The garden out back that’s usually used was soaking wet from the surprising yet refreshing early morning downpour.  I missed praying in the garden, but I didn’t mind praying inside the mosque this time…it was nice and cozy, reminded me of the Eids back in Northern Virginia at the Saudi Ma’had.

After the prayer and sermon were over, as we were filing out of the mosque, we noticed that there was a sacrifice about to take place right outside the mosque on the patio.  There were several men holding onto and attempting to subdue a cow, preparing to sacrifice it.  When they finally were able to subdue it, and the butcher got down beside it to put the knife to it’s neck, and uttered the words, “Bismillaah, Allaahu Akbar!” (In Allaah’s name, Allaah is the Greatest!), I felt an overwhelming rush of emotions, that I can’t quite describe, and tears came to my eyes.

A little of it had to do with feeling pity and compassion for the animal, but deep inside, I knew that animal did not suffer for even one instant.  Aside from the scientific evidence which proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that the islamic way of animal slaughter is in fact the most -and probably the only – humane method…aside from this, I knew in my heart, and trusted fully, that Allaah would never command His creation to do a thing that would include mercilessness and barbarism (as some without proper knowledge have called it).

So no, the rush of emotions that I felt had more to do with a sense of amazement when as I was witnessing an act of true submission to the commands of Allaah.  Think about it for a moment if you will.  We are commanded to slaughter our animals in the most hands on, down and dirty kind of way.  Coming in close contact with the animal, feeling its warmth, looking into its eyes…putting a knife to its neck and taking its life, witnessing all that blood gushing forth as its body shakes uncontrollably cannot be an easy thing to do emotionally, psychologically, and physically.  I would bet that the average human being could not bring himself to perform such an act, even on an animal.  Nonetheless, as muslims, we have been commanded by Allaah to do just that.

It’s like Allaah is asking us, “Will you obey my commands, no matter how difficult they may seem, no matter how heavy they may seem? Will you trust that I know what’s best for you because I created you and I know you better than you know yourself?  Or will you resort to your own way of thinking and perceiving things, and try to do things your own way because your way seems to be easier and more proper?”

In many countries around the world, policy makers have actually resorted to their own ways of thinking, and you see that animal slaughtering has become a hands-off task, handled by machines, gas chambers and electrical shock devices.  It is believed that these ways are for the benefit of the animal because they (appear to) suffer less, but really, these ways are for nothing other than to ease mankind’s own consciences.  It is understandable that no normal, sane human being likes to see another living thing suffer, and because of the goriness of it, animals are perceived to suffer by being slaughtered, which is not the case, and has been proven in the above-mentioned article.

So as I was witnessing the sacrifice on Eid day, witnessing these brothers fulfilling the commands of Allaah, getting themselves covered in blood, mentioning Allaah’s greatness, remembering that Allaah chose the most merciful way for these animals to die, I felt proud to be a part of this noble religion and noble ummah, the ummah of “We have heard, and we have obeyed!”.

I felt blessed for having been guided to this way of life that has been divinely revealed by a Merciful, All-Knowing God.

I felt tranquility and inner peace, knowing that everything Allaah commands us to do, it’s out of His love for us, and His wanting only what’s best for us…even the hard stuff that takes every ounce of faith inside of me to fulfill.

I thought about prophet Ibrahim, and how extremely difficult it must have been for him to even fathom taking his own son’s life.  As a mother, I try to imagine how absolutely sick with grief I would have been had it been me.  I thought about his and Ismail’s responses to Allaah’s command, and felt an overwhelming sense of admiration and respect for them- upon them be peace.

I pray that this Eid Al Adha was so much more than just about getting new clothes, going to the parties and eating lots of delicious meat dishes.  I pray that it was a time of sincere reflection, for all of us, on our purpose in life, which is to worship our Lord, sincerely, by fulfilling His commands and keeping away from His prohibitions, ameen.


10 Words of Advice from Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim

10 Words of Advice from Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim

***UPDATE July 30***:  I actually forgot to tag other people, so I’m tagging: Umm Adam, Asiyasmom, and Tru3woman.

Go ahead ladies, tell us a few things about yourself…let us know where ya been at and how ya been :) !

Bismillaah.

Heart

I was tagged to do the “Honest Scrap” list, but to be honest, after Facebook’s infamous “25 things”, I couldn’t bring myself to make another list of boring blah blah blah about myself.  So, I decided instead to do something more beneficial.

These words of wisdom and advice are taken from the book Al-Fawa’id – a treatise, written by Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim, “consisting of the landmarks of guidance, light and the firebrands of piety…focusing on the role and duty of the heart…” (from Translator’s Note)  I pray we are all able to benefit from his words.

10 Words of Advice from Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim:

1) Allaah promised you the pleasures of the Hereafter, so do not be in a hurry and seek them in this worldly life as if you are cutting plants before their harvest time, while they are much better if you wait.  Likewise, the pleasures of the Hereafter are so much better.

2) Buy for yourself (through doing good deeds) while there is still a market and you have the ability to buy.

3) Everyone will pass through times of sleep and neglect (following his desires), but do not sink into sleep as the morning of the Hereafter is close at hand.

4) Get yourself out of this limited world of diseases to the wide world of the Hereafter, which has what the eyes have never seen.  Nothing is impossible there, and love is not lost.  O you who sold yourself for the sake of something that will cause you suffering and pain, and which will also lose its beauty, you sold the most precious item for the cheapest price, as if you neither knew the value of the goods nor the meanness of the price.  Wait until you come to a Day of Mutual Loss and Gain, and you will discover the injustice of this contract.  “There is nothing worthy of worship except Allaah” is something that Allaah is buying.  Its price is Paradise, and the Messenger – peace be upon him – is its agent, and you will be pleased to part with a small part of this worldly life to obtain it.  The part you lose is a small part of something that as a whole is not worth a mosquito’s wing.

5) The human being was honored with blessings of faith and good health, but he misused them, so they were justly taken away from him.

6) Do not feel weary of standing by His (Allaah’s) door, even if you are driven away, and never stop asking His forgiveness even if you feel it is rejected.  When the door is opened for the accepted ones, do not miss the chance and rush therein, intruding, and stretch forth your hands saying

“Be charitable with us.” (Qur’an, 12:88)

7) Be the son of the Hereafter, and do not be the son of this worldly life, for verily, the son follows his mother.

8] To Allaah belongs the kingdom of the heavens and the earth, yet He asks a loan from  you (to give in charity) but you are stingy.  He created the seven seas, but He loved a tear from you (out of fear of Him) but your eyes were tearless.

9) Whoever wants to purify his heart, must prefer Allaah over and above his own desires.

10) Your heart will be ruined from feeling secure and being careless adn will grow by remembering Allaah and being pious.

11) Longing for Allaah and the meeting with Him is like a breeze that blows through the heart and removes the blaze of this worldly life.

12) The heart gets sick as the body does and its cure is in asking for forgiveness and protection.  It also becomes rusty like a mirror does and it is polished by remembering Allaah.  The heart can also be naked like the body and can lose its dress and decoration, which is piety, and it can feel hungry and thirsty like the body does, and its nourishment is knowledge, love, trust, and offering service to Allaah.

13) Following ones desires and having extended hope is the core of evil.  Following ones desires blinds one from seeing what is right, and having extended hope makes one forget the Hereafter and prevents one from preparing for it.

As you can see I added an extra 3 points :)   I would have put the whole book up here if I could…all 350-something pages!  But I think for now this is enough.

Other People’s Stories

Other People’s Stories

Bismillaah.

It’s always refreshing to hear others’ conversion/enlightenment stories. These are two that I’ve enjoyed watching recently mashaa Allaah:

Mutah Beale

Yusuf Estes (Part 1)
Yusuf Estes (Part 2)
Yusuf Estes (Part 3)
Yusuf Estes (Part 4)
Yusuf Estes (Part 5)

Inshaa Allaah you’ll enjoy watching them as well!