May Allaah cleanse our hearts and give us all refuge from pride and arrogance, ameen.
Indeed It is the source of all evil. It is the reason for shaytan being expelled from Paradise. It is a cause for Allaah’s anger.
It infests a person’s heart slowly, killing the light of all that is good in the heart, until the heart becomes dead, lifeless.
It prevents a person from the honor of doing a variety of good deeds and consequently growing closer to Allaah, and receiving His pleasure and mercy. It leads away from Paradise and straight to hellfire.
Abdullaah bin Masud (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet – sall Allaahu alayhi wa sallam – said:
“He who has in his heart an ant’s weight of pride or arrogance will not enter paradise.”
Abu Said al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet said,
“There was a dispute between Hell and Paradise, and Hell said, ‘The haughty and proud are in me.’ Paradise said, ‘In me are the weak and humble.'” (Muslim)
Salamah bin al-Akwa (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported: Allaah’s Messenger said,
“Mankind continues to display haughtiness and arrogance until he is recorded among the arrogant and will be therefore afflicted with what afflicts them.” (Tirmidhi)
The opposite of pride is humility, or humbling oneself. Ibn al-Qayyim says:
Humility comes from knowing about Allaah and His names and attributes, and His greatness, venerating Him, loving Him and being in awe of Him; and also from knowing about oneself and one’s faults, and weaknesses. From that may develop the attitude of humility, which means feeling helpless before Allaah, and being humble and compassionate towards His slaves, so that the person does not feel superior towards anyone, or think that he has any rights over anyone else; rather he thinks that others are better than him, and that their rights come before his. This is a characteristic that Allaah gives to those whom He loves, honours and draws close to Him.
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“Wealth does not decrease because of charity, and Allaah increases His slave in honour when he forgives others. And no one humbles himself before Allaah but Allaah will raise him (in status).”
Narrated by Muslim, 2588. Imam al-Nawawi included it in a chapter entitled: “The recommendation of forgiveness and humility.”
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “And no one humbles himself before Allaah but Allaah will raise him (in status).” This is understood in two ways: the first is that He will raise him (in status) in this world, and give him status in people’s hearts because of his humility, and give him a high status in people’s eyes. The second is that what is meant is his reward in the Hereafter, where his status will be raised because of his humility in this world.
The scholars said: It may be that both are meant, (and that his status will be raised) both in this world and in the Hereafter. And Allaah knows best.
May Allaah erase pride and arrogance from the hearts of the muslims, and increase us in humility, ameen.